Arguing
There’s a difference between arguing and engaging in healthy debate on a topic. And involving yourself in arguments that have no purpose, other than the rouse anger from others, makes people lose respect for you.
Arguing reflects a need to prove oneself, with an approach that’s combative and lacking in a willingness to listen to the opposing view. However, discussion or debate comes from a healthier state, demonstrating a clear interest and openness to the opposite view.
There could be some benefits to arguing. Conflict and arguments are often seen as negative and things to be avoided… Yet research suggests that the process of conflict and arguing facilitates talk and awareness of another’s perspective.
So, yes, while arguments can help people see things from another point of view, arguments are also like two bulls locking horns — and respectable people know to avoid these. Stepping into the ring instantly lowers yourself because it’s unconscious and undermines your peace. Discuss calmly, or keep quiet and don’t argue.